Life Happens! (the polite version of the quote)

Hey folks!....Long time no see........The subject this time is maktub.......For those who think they know what it means, guess again....and those who dont, get a life people!.....One of my friends from school came to Delhi and met me recently.....After meeting him, i felt truly grateful to be where i am in my life......This poor fellow happened to be one of those people who actually listens to their parents when they say 'beta, engineering kar lo'......Having cleared his boards with an average grade and possessing very little ambition or direction in life like so many of us in the "system", he landed up in an engineering college in Maharashtra…..At the current moment there are forty boys in his class and three ‘girls’…..He said, I quote, “One is fat, one is hairy and the third one is crazy”…….This I think adequately describes the situation of the Indian male population to a large extent………Those of you who find this blog offensive, pls write in your complaints and suggestions to idontgiveadamn@kissmyass.com ……..The argument in this case is one I like to define in terms of nature versus nurture…..Your genetic predisposition, intelligence quotient, physical status and metabolism all play a part in your place in this world…..However, your destiny also depends entirely on what you believe in…..Your education, confidence, opportunities, skills and decision making abilities form a large part of this…….But in the end it comes down to what you believe in……A very common example that most of you would be familiar with is the ménage-a-trois……If don’t think it can happen to you or don’t believe you can handle it, it probably aint gonna happen!...:-D…….So grow a pair of cojones fellas and grab the bull by the horns!.....And don’t forget, Life Happens!